Frequently Asked Questions
Find answers to the most common questions about Granite State Couples, the swinger lifestyle, and membership details.
1. What is Granite State Couples?
Granite State Couples is an exclusive swingers network for married couples in Manchester, New Hampshire, providing a discreet and safe environment for those looking to explore new experiences together.
2. How do we join Granite State Couples?
Couples must submit proof of marriage and valid photo identification. Our verification team carefully reviews each application to ensure that only genuine, committed married couples are granted membership.
3. Do both partners have to consent to join?
Absolutely. We only admit married couples where both partners have freely agreed to explore the swinger lifestyle together. Consent and mutual respect are the foundation of our community.
4. Is my personal information kept confidential?
Yes. We understand the importance of discretion and privacy. All personal information, including IDs and marriage certificates, is securely stored and never shared with third parties. Only verified staff members can access it for approval purposes.
5. What events or gatherings does Granite State Couples host?
We offer discreet social events, themed parties, and private dinners at our secret location. Drinks and food are included, creating a comfortable environment to meet other like-minded couples.
6. How often do events take place?
Granite State Couples typically hosts events several times per month. Our schedule varies, so members can choose the dates that fit their lifestyle and comfort level.
7. Is there a dress code at events?
While there's no strict dress code, we encourage classy, stylish attire that suits the evening’s theme or vibe. Think “smart casual” or something comfortably elegant, depending on the party’s motif.
8. Is there a limit on how many couples can attend an event?
Our gatherings are kept relatively small and exclusive, ensuring a relaxed, intimate atmosphere. This allows attendees to comfortably mingle and connect without feeling overcrowded.
9. Can single men or single women join?
No, Granite State Couples is strictly for married couples. We verify marriage certificates and IDs to maintain an environment focused on committed partners exploring together.
10. What is the age requirement?
Both partners must be at least 21 years old. Some events may have a specific age preference, but 21 is the minimum age to apply for membership.
11. How do we handle boundaries and consent?
Consent is paramount. We strongly encourage open communication between partners and clear boundaries with others. Each event has guidelines to ensure everyone feels comfortable and respected.
12. Are STI or STD checks mandatory?
While we do not require proof of testing, we promote transparency and responsible behavior. We highly recommend regular health check-ups and open discussions about sexual health among participating couples.
13. Do we have to swap or participate in group activities?
Not at all. Some couples attend purely for the social aspect, while others might be open to swapping. Every couple is different. We encourage each pair to move at their own pace and comfort level.
14. Is there a place to spend the night at the venue?
We do not provide on-site accommodations. Most of our couples commute or stay at nearby hotels after events. We can provide a short list of recommended hotels in Manchester if needed.
15. How do membership fees work?
We offer various membership plans, including unlimited event access, pay-per-event options, and annual passes. Each plan is designed to fit different levels of engagement within the community.
16. What if we have questions or need help during an event?
Our friendly staff members are always on hand to address any concerns or questions you might have. We aim to maintain a safe, respectful atmosphere for all couples.
17. Do you allow photography or videos at events?
Absolutely not. We prohibit all forms of photography and videography at our events to protect everyone’s privacy. Anyone found violating this rule will be removed from the community immediately.
18. What if we're completely new to the swinger lifestyle?
Granite State Couples is beginner-friendly. We encourage new couples to attend social mixers or “meet & greet” events first. This helps you get comfortable with the atmosphere and meet others without any pressure.
19. Can we bring alcoholic beverages?
The venue generally provides drinks, but you can usually bring a personal selection of wine or spirits if you prefer. However, we do require responsible consumption. Intoxication and disorderly behavior are not tolerated.
20. We still have more questions. Who can we talk to?
Feel free to contact us directly with any additional questions or specific concerns. We’re always here to help you feel comfortable, safe, and informed.